So you’re a Cuckold? I imagine you are reading this because the title really seems to resonate with an existing fantasy of yours… Or maybe, you are wondering where the Cuckold path could lead you? Becoming a Bukkake Boyfriend may well be your destination.

Bukkake Boyfriend: The Beginning…

Okay, so – the topic of this blog is a unique one. It was inspired by the many cuckolding ‘fluffer’ subbies I speak with on a regular basis, so if the thought of your wife or girlfriend watching you suck a nice big cock gets you hot under the collar then this blog is for you! 

So one of my regular clients enjoys the fantasy of watching multiple men with his wife. And the idea of bukkake boyfriend came from a very hot roleplay scenario that we played out. He was pretty worked up, and we had been toying with the idea of him pleasuring his wife’s lovers. Initially this was one of his limits, and was something he expressed very little interest in. But as we continued playing out different scenarios, I think it came to a point where he had opened up to the idea of being involved with a guy or four!

Eager To Serve?

A crucial component of this roleplay was the knowledge of it being for his wife’s pleasure – not his.

So, after a few sessions of coerced- bi exploration, we started introducing multiple ‘bulls’ into the scenario. Each roleplay would start out very much the same – his wife on the bed, being worshiped and pleasured by these guys that she had invited over. Her husband sitting eagerly on the lower corner of the bed. Watching every single thrust. Every single lick. Every tiny detail.

At this point I told him it was his duty to hold back stroking his cock during this intense stage. Which seemed pretty unbearable with all the very detailed descriptions I was giving him. 😉

He begged and begged to be allowed to stroke, and so we struck a bargain.  Initially he thought I meant attending to his usual clean up duties. That nice juicy cream pie waiting to be licked and devoured. But no! Not that. I wanted him on his knees, on the floor near the bed…

Desperate to stroke, he agreed. As he did this, the 4 ‘bulls’ that had been ploughing his wife, pulled out of her holes and surrounded her him. It was at this point he realized that his task was to drain the balls of every guy in the room! This is Bukkake Boyfriend!

Aroused? Read on to discover how you can explore your desires fully and freely with the right Femdom!

What You Should Look For In A Femdom:

There are many skills that make up a well-rounded/ professional Femdom. Some of these skills are often neglected by those out there who seek to make a quick buck. But for me, having the ability to empathize with my clients is the key ingredient for a phenomenal session!

Empathy gives me the ability to understand the feelings and desires of my callers. This is essential when delving deep into someone else’s fantasy, and here is why:

Identifying hard and flexible boundaries:   This really should speak for itself. I do not see my clients as robots awaiting my desired programming. This is often the approach many ‘wanna be Femdoms’ will take. I have heard time and time again in session, how different my approach is , and how my clients feel seen and heard by me.

If a Femdom cannot listen & empathize then how can your session be uniquely build around you and your desires? Quite simply – It can’t!

Providing a safe space for confessions/secrets: This one is essential in building a caring bond with my clients. Yes, Femdoms can be strict and firm, but you should always seek someone who is interested in you and committed to cultivating a solid and trusting bond! The Mistressing style in session is a separate entity from this essential foundation.

A Willingness To Learn: Some Femdoms can be set in their ways – focusing too much on what they think they know, as opposed to what they could learn from every experience.

I never assume. I never tell you what you like, unless I know you well enough to understand your desires fully! I have learnt so much from my callers, they truly inspire me to become better at what I do!

How Do I know If I like Coerced-Bi?

This is a question I get asked quite often and it is something that you and you alone will need to figure out. Here are some indications that could help.

Arousal Levels : Do you sometimes find yourself fantasizing about Bi scenarios? If you do, may be this is something you would like to explore more in depth. 

If you don’t actively fantasize but notice you do become aroused when certain Bi curious thoughts pop into your head, this could be an indicator. Random thoughts are perfectly normal, so don’t be alarmed if you find yourself thinking about something you wouldn’t normally do in real life.

Interest in exploration: If you have been thinking about exploring a fantasy for a while or feel the need to chat to someone about it, then this may be a clue. 

Sexual exploration is perfectly normal, and your interests do not define you as a person. I’ve done this long enough to realise everyone has their secrets. Guilt and shame are unnecessary and unwarranted, consider chatting with a Mistress – it is incredibly liberating to uncover your inner most desires with someone who gets it! 

I would love to hear your thougthts, feelings and questions regarding this post! Feel free to comment on this blog or email me at ruby@enchantrixempire.com to find out more! If you would like to book a session with me then you can find more information on how to do that HERE.

Until next time My Pet, 

Mistress Ruby Enchantrix