Why you’re obsessed with cock Sucking 

So often I get clients wanting to tell me their deepest secrets (yes confessional phone sex is a thing). And a lot of the time those secrets are fantasies that they themselves are confused by. I would even go so far as to say some battle with their thoughts, trying to push them  down and repress them. One of the most popular – cock sucking.

Fantasies Are Natural

I just want to put your mind to rest and assure you that fantasies are completely natural and normal, and usually our fantasies are just that – fantasies. Just because you get incredibly aroused by something doesn’t mean you need to take it to the next level… Unless you want to of course!

Naughtiness Is Intoxicating

Ever wonder why these thoughts seem to turn you on more than anything else? We always want what we can’t have, or at least what we think we shouldn’t have, and this is no exception to the rule. One little thought creeps in and then *BAM* it becomes a guilty pleasure. Sometimes being a bit devious is a massive turn on. Exploring sexuality and the plethora of diverse pleasures offered.

Porn Is A Trigger

You may not realise it but indulging in porn too often can lead to a more diluted release of Dopamine – the pleasure chemical! The more you watch, the less pleasure you get from the same old stuff. This is the gateway for finding something different. And sometimes you stumble upon an idea that may have turned you off a few weeks back – now it’s your new go to spank bank material!

You fixate every time you touch yourself

This is a way of training yourself to become aroused as soon as you think of that fantasy. You have a mind blowing orgasm thinking about the nitty-gritty details and then go back for more. Sometimes people struggle having an orgasm when they try to think of something else, especially when they get into this routine!

You’ve had a hot experience

This may apply to some, but certainly not all. If you’ve experimented in real life and you had a thoroughly enjoyable experience you are more likely to relive it in your head, especially when you get some alone time. You may even be planning your next one…

Your girlfriend wouldn’t approve

Sometimes it’s nice to explore fantasies with a partner or significant other, but not all fantasies are her thing. I’m aware that some guys out that have exceptionally kinky partners and that is fantastic. But if you are one of those guys that would never divulge your deepest fantasies, then there is a good chance it will feel naughtier and more desirable to you. When we’ve been in a relationship for a very long time, fantasies can almost serve as a mental defiance. We are claiming pieces of ourselves back, so that we are not completely entwined with another person, who may annoy us most days.

You like the idea of being cuckolded

Again, this won’t apply to everyone but for some, cuckolding is a massive turn on and it certainly opens up a lot more possibilities when it comes to exploring sexuality. You may start out thinking about how hot it would be to watch your wife or girlfriend with another man. Then thoughts slowly wander to where you are eating her out afterwards, cleaning up that nice cream pie! Naturally, curiosity takes hold and you start to wonder how far you would actually take it. Maybe his cock is huge and absolutely gorgeous looking (yes cocks can be attractive). He may even expect you to submit to him… If you’ve been thinking about cock sucking chances are this scenario is sure to float your boat!

You’re Naturally Submissive

There is something incredibly sexy about alpha male confidence (and no, I don’t mean bullshit bravado or egotistical behaviour). Most guys who enjoy the fantasy or the act of cock sucking are fascinated by a dominating presence – especially that Alpha male with the ‘it ain’t gonna suck itself’ attitude. You can’t help but drop to your knees when a real man takes control.

I hope you enjoyed reading this blog and maybe it even helped you to identify the origin of your cock sucking fantasies… I would love to hear your thoughts comments and suggestions. Tell me about your personal experiences if you would like to share – I love hearing from you all.

Until next time pets

XOXO