So, you wanna know how to serve an online Femdom? Then read on to get my top tips on getting off to a good start! Here I will talk you through everything you need to include in your introduction email. Listen to my Podcast to gain insight into my phone sex pet peeves – it’s a hoot!

What are you looking for? 

So, you’ve just stumbled across my website and now you’re wondering “How can I become a good submissive for Ms Ruby?” Well, reaching out via email is a good start! The questions below will help you to construct a good introductory email that allows me insight into your expectations whilst respecting me and my time. 

  1. What am I into? This relates to your personal kinks/sexual interests. If you like lots of different things then pick 2-3 for me to work with. DO NOT say “I’m into everything.” 
  2. How do I want to be handled in session? Do you want a sensual or strict experience? If you want a mixture of both let me know! 
  3. Do I want my Mistress to uncover my secrets slowly or do I want her to have a good understanding of me before our session? Some people like the interrogation/confessional style, this is especially fun if you enjoy feeling vulnerable and humiliated. Others prefer their Mistress to know exactly what to do as soon as they answer the phone. If this is you, then answering these questions before the session is even more crucial! 
  4. Am I Shy? I deal with many clients, some are confident, some are shy. If you would like to have a session where you are predominantly silent and I take the reigns,  then letting me know in advance makes it so much easier! I prefer to prepare for these sessions in advance, allowing me to create a more erotic experience.
  5. What are my limits? Yes – everyone has them, so identify yours and let me know what they  are! If you are open to pushing the boundaries of your limits, then that is also something you should mention. 

Watch Your Word Limit

Now you’ve answered all of the above and you are beginning to draft your inquiry email. It is important to note that your email should be concise and neat. I don’t wanna see any novels or essays. Make it easily readable and be respectful of my time! 

Now, if you do wish to send something longer (maybe a script or roleplay scene) then consider sending an amazon gift voucher or purchasing off of my Wishlist. This is not compulsory, but it goes a long way in showing your appreciation for my time. It also improves the chances of me taking the time to read and respond sooner. 

Once you’ve sent your email to me you can expect a reply within 24 hours (with the exception of weekends). 

Sessions

So you will have two options when booking. You can either call up during my available hours or you can schedule an appointment. 

I offer appointments without requiring a deposit and so, if you are going to be late or if you would like to reschedule you will let me know well in advance. If I have structured my day around our appointment, it is only respectful to provide advanced notice of any changes. 

Now, if something comes up and you are unable to give me notice in advance, then purchasing from my Wishlist or providing a gift voucher will go a long way to gain favour with me. If you are late or do not turn up without communicating this with me, you will no longer be able to book appointments in advance and will only be able to contact me through my regular schedule.

No – We Do Not Accept Bank Transfers Or Alternative Payment Methods! 

If you are new to Enchantrix Empire you may be confused about payments. We only offer secure payments via our web pages or via our lovely dispatch team. We are professionals and so we do not offer alternative payment methods.

Our service is also backs by our satisfaction guarantee. I highly doubt you will find any other femdom service that offers this! We are the absolute best in the business – building long term friendships/relationships with our clients. If you’re looking for a fly by night ‘femdom’ service who places no value on cultivating a lasting bond, then look elsewhere! 

Until next time Pets – XOXO

Ms Ruby Enchantrix

Attention Sissies – NEW EVENT COMING SOON…

Attention Sissy girlies! I want you to keep your eyes open. Something very big is coming to the Empire VERY soon! You can expect some big news around the 1st February so stay tuned!