Micro-phallus. Tiddly wink. Man clit. The Houdini weenie. Men that are less blessed in the trouser department. This could cover a range of sizes but for the record I’m talking about those guys who are considerably less than average. Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be in a long term relationship with a guy who doesn’t quite measure up? I want to explore this and offer a new perspective on something that most women would shudder at the thought of… Yes, a guy with a spectacularly small penis!
A Different Dynamic
For most people sex is important, and I categorise myself as one of those people; however, it seems the guys who pulled out the genetic ‘short straw’ maybe far better than we give them credit for. In fact, I’ll go as far as to say those guys could even make better husbands!
Now, I know what you are thinking… “Why on earth would you come to that conclusion Ms. Ruby?” Well, let’s assess the situation objectively and I’ll let you be the judge of whether or not you think I’m on to something.
More common than you think
It has been recorded that approximately 16% of men live with an erect penis size that is less than 4.5 inches, 2.5% of which have under 3.7 inches! Those with the so called Micro Penis find penetration near enough impossible, ruling out sexual intercourse entirely! The reality of living with a small penis can radically change a man’s life. Penis size is a concern for whomever wears it and also for anyone sexually involved with that person.
Okay, so now we know roughly how many people have this issue let’s address some of the reasons why I think these guys deserve some serious consideration, especially when seeking a long term partner.
Unconditional Love & Respect
As a woman, if you really want pure respect, love and honesty, then a man with a teeny weeny is an excellent choice! Guys with small dicks aim to please their women at every given opportunity. They know they need to compensate for their size, and do so in just about every way imaginable. These guys work hard to earn your love and will always give you the time of day!
They Are Oral Jedi Masters
Got a pang for a good pussy licking? I love it when a guys face is between my thighs, going to work with the full intention of giving me pleasure. Unfortunately for most women out there, this is not a regular occurrence! That’s not to say a guy with a big shlong can’t give you a good time. It’s a matter of priorities! I can tell you right now that when a guy knows he can’t make you cum with his dick, he’s going to give you multiple orgasms with his tongue. Think of it as oral on tap. Yup! Whenever you want it, he’s ready to go. Don’t be discouraged if he hasn’t had much experience. These guys are ready to be moulded and shaped to your specifications. Instructions and demands are what they thrive on! You’ll have a perfectly trained oral master in no time at all!
‘Ego’ Just Isn’t In His Vocabulary
We all know that an over blown ego, along with a heavy dose of male bravado is extremely off putting and unattractive. Personally I steer clear of any guy that tries to win me over by bragging. I like my men humble and considerate, and that is exactly what these guys offer! They are grateful to be in the company of a beautiful woman, and I would be lying if I told you I don’t completely love that concept. Who doesn’t want to be worshipped and adored? ‘ME’ – said no one ever!
They go the extra mile
What does your man do for your birthday? What about Valentines day? How about your anniversary? I have heard complaints from so many women with the ‘alpha male type’ describing the typical scenario of forgotten anniversaries or birthday celebrations that leave more to be desired. Every woman wants to be treated like the goddess she is; and if you are looking for a guy that goes above and beyond, then you need to get yourself a guy with a shrimp dick!
Fancy a trip away on the weekend? How about a sensual massage when you get home from work? Oh, and that hand bag you wanted for your birthday… He went out and got it for you months before, just to make you smile. Turns out treating you right isn’t a special occasion thing, it’s an every day thing!
Cheating ain’t on the menu
There are guys out there that cheat, and guys that are completely faithful. How can you tell when dating a guy if he is the type to cheat? Instinct plays a big role here, though there is no way to be 100% sure…
Except for one, of course. I would bet you $500 that any guy wearing a nano-prick wouldn’t even dream of cheating! Several factors come into play here, but mainly, the lack of Ego (which is a good thing) and the potential humiliation of being outed as ‘that guy with a small cock’. He knows how lucky he is to have you and he isn’t going to give that up for anything! Plus, satisfying one woman is a full time job! :’D
The Final count down
In addition to my aforementioned points, here are some added benefits of having a small penis, as well as reasons why you should totally marry a guy that has one!
6. Sharing is caring!
Need good sex? Not a problem! Most guys with tiny dicks are open to the possibility of being cuckolded too! Heck, some even strongly encourage you to go out and do your thing! And let’s face it, variety is the spice of life! So get out there and have fun!
5. Beauty over size.
Most women prefer the site of a more harmoniously balanced member over a large unsightly cock. So size is of little importance here!
4. Vaginal orgasm – a rare commodity
According to a variety of surveys many women admitted that penetration alone could not get them off! In fact, only 30% of women asked said they were able to enjoy orgasms solely from penetration. This is why oral is so damn important for many ladies!
3. A wobbly belief
Scientifically, no study has ever been able to conclusively prove that penis size has a direct impact on the pleasure felt. Most ‘small’ guys brush up on other skills to make their ladies cum and ensure that their penis size does not interfere with overall satisfaction!
2. Blow jobs are much easier (if you WANT to return the favour)
For those women that absolutely detest a rough face fuck (and yes, some women do), a small penis may be the answer! Just let him try and make you gag – not going to happen in this case!
And for those of us women that would suck on nothing less than a 7″ cock, don’t worry, he will never pressure you! He is just happy to get to pleasure you! 😉 If you don’t want to play with it he could always get into pillow humping!
1. A more caring lover
In bed this guy isn’t going to be passionate and hot, but what he lacks in confidence he makes up for in determination! He will always ensure you are satisfied and won’t give himself a second thought. It’s up to you if you want to reward his good behaviour…
So if you have a guy on your radar and the only thing standing between you both is a little prick then I say give the guy a shot! Maybe it will be more enjoyable than you think…
Don’t sweat the small stuff as they say!
Until next time pets,
XOXO
Mistress Ruby you are insightful.The brain is the most important sexual organ.That is where it is important to come up huge.Focus,foreplay,feelings often will bring one fun and fulfillment.Otherwise there may be futility and failure.People want to feel important.They want to feel valued.Intimate relationships often will lead to mind blowing erotic times.
You see it all the time.Attractive people breaking up because when the everyday things in life set in those erotic highs in the relationship can recede.The brain is guiding those feelings.
Healthy fantasy thoughts is a good way to ignite the erotic feelings.
Thank you Mistress Ruby.Your caring, intuitive,kind, relationship building side is on display again.
Completely agree with the points you made about attractive people breaking up once everyday life sets in! Sounds like a lot of relationships out there are based on aesthetics alone, which is not the be all and end all of a good relationship or great sex! Don’t get me wrong, it’s great when you get that physical chemistry, but as soon as it disappears they become replaceable. Need to bring far more to the table than beauty alone. Same goes for a big cock! Thank you for your lovely comment!
I actually fall into that 16% you identified. I actually think you completely understand this. You really describe how I feel on many levels. Better than I understood it. You are completely right about the lack of ego as well as the “no way would you cheat”. I also think that I am more pliable than many men and I know it relates to being tiny. I find it remarkable that a female can understand this this well.
Hey Owen, Thank you for your comment! I have spent almost 3 years doing what I do and during that time I’ve had the opportunity to really get inside the minds of many different people, some of which fall into this category too. I am glad you felt as though the article resonates with you, I will take that as a compliment! <3 xoxo
Yes , as a cuck husband I completely agree. when erect, I measure 4 1/2 inches. At first my wife was ok with it, and tried to spice things up in the bedroom like videos, I used cock sleeves penis pumps, even fucked her with a strap on. It helped but she needed an actual big cock. She later found a guy that met her needs.
Do you enjoy the dynamic between you and your partner now? I’m guessing it’s incredibly arousing watching her enjoy herself 🙂
She’s having a great time, especially with her lover. To see them in action is erotic. Its does make me feel a bit inferior to see him giving her a toe-curling orgasm in our marriage bed
Well, what you lack in size you make up for in other ways! You clearly make her very happy by thinking of her needs. Some men are incapable of doing this. Heck, some humans are incapable of doing this. Kudos to you!
Thanks, I do look after her needs always. I know she lives me unconditionally, and she said so. I think sometimes as a man you want to be the one who gives her your all. Seeing that I cant do that in the bedroom for her was a blow to the ego but eventually I got over that. Bit that could compete with her lover cause sexually hes superior to me in every way. However, i stepped aside and he took my place as her “husband”, in the bedroom
Mistress Ruby, This is a great post. I am one of these poorly endowed males at 3 inches when erect and i have never ever had sex in my life. I will say that small men can become total slaves in life.
Thank you for your comment, Tiny Tim 🙂 🙂 🙂 Not only can they become slaves, but they can become incredibly caring and considerate partners. Yes, obeying a woman is hardwired for most of these guys, but I think they take the initiative and really show their true worth when they decide how they should act/respond to situations. Remember your size doesn’t dictate your worth; your actions do. xxx
I’ve always felt their was a strong relationship between submissiveness and being small endowed. I think you just have some kind of internal knowledge that you need to work very hard on behalf of the female. You sort of know you have to try to make up for it. Some women will knowingly put small men to work. I guess it can be like a “slave thing” in a way. Women seem to know how this works and how things are for little guys. You are right Ruby – if you are lucky enough to have a girlfriend you definitely do not even think of straying. Women have the total upper hand in this. I think it is best to accept it if you are the guy. Just do your best and work hard.
But remember – just because a woman has the upper hand, doesn’t mean your efforts go unnoticed or unappreciated. We love it when guys try hard to win us over, and even though you know you are at a disadvantage in the bedroom, doesn’t mean you can’t be the best partner she’s ever had!
Well thank you for saying that. My sense is that some women are “more forgiving” on this issue than others. I think for some it is a “deal breaker” (maybe most), but I also think some women will let you try to compensate. In this day and age – some women are more explicit about your need to do that.
It’s true, some women aren’t going to be interested, but lot’s of women will be. I guess it works that way in life all the time. You may not be everyone’s’ type, but that doesn’t mean you can’t find a meaningful and awesome relationship. 🙂 Besides, no one can be everyone’s type anyway! Even the most beautiful people are not going to be perceived as beautiful by everyone.