Attention married men! So, you’re married. You’re into BDSM and she isn’t. In fact, she wants you to take on the dominant role, when your only desire is to serve. So, what’s the answer? Read on to get my perspective on the matter.

Destructive Distractions

In the sex industry I see a lot of niches come and go and one that really sticks out to me currently, is ‘homewrecking’. If you’ve never heard of it then I’m sure you’ll agree that the name speaks for itself. Homewrecking happens when a person begins to distract you from your current partner. This could be physically, or emotionally. Either way, your relationship will suffer because of it.

Playing With Fire

Many of us like the intoxicating feeling of lust. When we find someone who can fulfil our deepest needs it can be easy to give into that. The thrill of a Mistress telling you what to do can be addictive, especially if you have craved it for so long and don’t have that kind of connection in your personal life.

But there is a way to heighten your lust and excitement without compromising the quality of your relationship. In fact, with the right Mistress on side, you can even improve it!

Walking Talking Contradiction

Yes, I know what you are thinking! “But Ms Ruby, isn’t your whole role designed to distract and entice men; even married men?”

I know the thought of me broaching this subject seems rather bizarre. I am a Mistress after all, and yes I enjoy my lifestyle as a femdom! Here is the thing though. Each Mistress you speak with is unique. Though most are well versed in the realm of kink, the delivery of these services will differ from Mistress to Mistress.

I enjoy speaking with married men, not to ruin their relationships and steal them away, but to give them a womans perspective on enhancing the intimacy between them and their significant other.

Submissive Married Men

If you have ever had a session with me you’ll know that I like to get to know my clients very well. If you are married but wish to be my sub then you’ll find a lot of the tasks I set out will involve serving your wife in various ways.

I want to use my power as your Mistress by not only giving you a fantastic submissive experience, but also giving you real world tasks that enrich and enhance your current relationship.

Best of all, she doesn’t need to be in the know.

Hurtful Confessions

Even though I applaud openness and honesty in relationships, we know that being 100% honest doesn’t always work out too well in reality. That’s not to say that all secrets are equal.

When it comes to the world of kink and fantasy it can be especially difficult to admit to a partner what we crave. Some partners will respond well, and some won’t. This is a judgment call that only persons involved are able to make.

Keeping your fantasies hidden is not something to be ashamed of, especially if you know they won’t be received well! They are yours and yours alone. Enjoy them and let your mind be creative!

Serving Ms Ruby

If you decide that you would like to explore your fantasies in a safe environment whilst simultaneously enriching your current relationship then I am here to help!

Your wife does not need to be involved or even made aware of our sessions. Though she will certainly benefit from them. Firstly, she will begin to notice a difference in how attentive you become. Through my instruction and training you will not only learn to think more about the needs of your wife, but you will gain invaluable knowledge of all of the little details previously unknown to you.

If your sex life has been struggling, then I will make it my personal mission to get to the root cause and offer practical solutions that can be applied to improve this.

If this blog really resonates with you I would love to hear from you in the comments below! Feel free to reach out to me personally if you would like to arrange a session (my schedule), I’ll look forward to getting to know you better!

Ms Ruby